so this guy and i have been talking on the dl since June, we had the dreaded “what are we” conversation yesterday and he says that he doesn’t want to be tied down, he treats me like his gf tho he always wants to hug me and stuff and he wanted me to meet his family, hes just confusing me, we haven’t hooked up yet either but if we get involved on that level that’s what our relationship would center around, it’s not that i’m opposed to a fwb relationship it’s the fact that he’s be able to hook up with other girls. that just seems pointless to me if i’m already hooking up with him,