So I did some googling and learned about self-settling or resettling baby. We're going to try it tonight. He doesn't like to be swaddled but it seems to help. One thing I read said to swaddle when they're asleep. I also added a small rice filled heating pad (not heated) to his chest for weight. (There's a swaddle blanket you can buy that has the weight built in.) And we're trying ocean waves. So essentially we're going to try patting him back to sleep before he fully starts crying. Then if that doesn't work we'll try rocking. Then the bottle. I suggest looking up a few articles and seeing what might work for you. I got 2.5 hours last night and no nap. I'll try anything.