My ovulation was just poorly timed for our life this month. My husband had a best friends’ wedding on our peak day and we didn’t BD because it was a long day, he had a lot to drink, I was exhausted, etc..

He’s feeling guilty and I’m feeling like shit because I’m sure this month isn’t our month but it’s so strange to feel those negative emotions!

Neither one of us are heavy drinkers and we both want to make having a baby a priority.. BUT, after all this time TTC it just seems like not living our lives and having a good time with our friends to stay on a sex schedule is ridiculous.

Yet here I am and here he is feeling like we threw a month in the garbage.

TTC can be so defeating and it makes you question every action. It’s just hard, y’all. I needed to vent and I know this community is full of people who understand.

Baby dust to all still in it this month!