My husband pees the bed when he is drunk

This makes him so unattractive to me. I dont even want to have sex. What if he pees on me fml. I need a good man m he is 36. I have him and the kids peeing the bed fml. Then he says he wants me to arouse him. We are already having minimal sex coz he cheated now he pees. He hadn't done it for a while.