Anyone else have his happen?

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I was getting tested for urine test STIs, nurse asked me if I used condoms during sex, I said yes. She then asks me about birth control I said I stopped taking it a while ago, she looks at me like I killed a baby and said you might be pregnant. (I literally just said I use condoms, plus they didn't break.) It's my body, I didn't want to take it anymore yet she made me feel shamed for not being on birth control. Why do nurses do this?

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The nurse was being judgemental and that is so unprofessional. 
I once went to a new OBGYN, and she blamed my emergency c-section on the fact that I used a midwife!! Then she shamed me for not agreeing to any of the birth control options she offered (I wanted to think about it first). I never went back. 
Drs and nurses are there to help and educate, they need to keep their judgment to themselves.

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I had a OBGYN treat me like shit because I didn’t want birth control. People are rude!

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Condoms are only 97% effective when used correctly but most dont use them correctly so they go down to like 88% effective.

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Cause you could be pregnant using a condom that didnt break or not. Lol it could have had a pinhole in it you didnt see.

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Tbh.. right after giving birth my doctors were peer pressuring me to get back on birthcontrol even though I wanted to let my body get back to normal first. I'm still pretty mad that I went through with it because it made my milk supply stop after like a month of pumping. I'm a young mom. But even at that no one should ever feel like that just because the nurse "feels" you HAVE to be on birthcontrol. It's your body and not theirs. 💯

Anyone else have his happen?

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