My ex and I haven’t talked since Tuesday and I’m trying to be ok with it.....should I text him or not

We tried to be fwb after breaking up in July , we only went out for 2 months.

But he was TOO MUCH. I felt so pressured by him to be something I wasn’t. He’s super smart but he gets angry at work a lot and he has bad anxiety issues I told him to get medication if it gets bad but of course he said he can’t rely on it. I felt so stressed those two months but I was also happy. It doesn’t make sense. We also fought or argued during those two months. I thought that was weird.

So we tried fwb after breaking up and it was okay but hes into really rough sex. Like I like rough sex too but not all the time. He was so rough that sometimes he’d make me bleed. That’s never happened before with my ex ex. After we became fwb & had sex I quickly lost Interest.

OHH & to make matters worse he was talking to another girl behind my back while we were dating that’s the main reason for the breakup.

So we decided to be friends and we he went on a trip to Detroit on Saturday & we argued over text right before he got off the plane. We last spoke Tuesday when he wished me happy birthday...

I kinda sorta miss him but I know it’s for the better.... should I just stay away??