Is a 20yr old and 28yr old bad? My mom is freaking out about it!

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When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was 21 and he was 29. I was nervous about asking him his age for the first week and a half because he looked significantly older than me. 29 was older than I was hoping for (but younger than I was expecting!). I learned that being in the same place in life as him was much more important to me than the age gap dividing us. He was back in school after being in the military for half a decade, and I was also finishing up my degree. I was actually really nervous to tell my mom how old he was, but she didn’t freak out as I’d anticipated, which made it SO much easier for me... I’m sorry your mom isn’t being as understanding. 
Bottom line? I think that as long as you and him have compatible views of what you want in the relationship, that age gap is just fine!

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It depends on when you started dating. If you were under 18, it would be weird that he wanted to start dating someone who wasn't an adult yet...🤪 
But if you've recently started dating, then that's fine. You're both adults and if you're okay with the age gap, then I say go for it! 
My boyfriend and I started dating when I was 19 and he was 26. I'm 20 now and he's 27, and we're doing great. There are plenty of other couples out there with a far more concerning age gap lol.

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Me and my boyfriend are 11 years apart and he’s 30 right now, my mom hated him but eventually ended up loving him!

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Not bad, but a meaningful age gap.

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Its a pretty decent age Gap but that doesn't make it wrong per say

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It’s fine. My friend and her spouse have 8 years between them and they have baby a girl 👼🏼

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She’s freaking out becuz she is scared about his intentions...

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Absolutely not bad.

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Thats fine. My spouse and I have 15 years between us 🤷. They will suck it up and be happy for you at some point.

Is a 20yr old and 28yr old bad? My mom is freaking out about it!

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