out of ideas/can’t orgasm?!!

okay girlies, just like most of y’all,i’ve been masturbating for years ( in my late teens now). when i first started it was easier to get pleasure from it because it was just unknown and new. but as the years progressed when i started getting boyfriends and all that, i haven’t been able to just get myself off. i thinks it’s because i don’t feel necessarily confident about my body and i’m running out of ideas to try/help because i miss feeling comfortable with it :( what should i do