What would you do?

I have my son on a strict night schedule, 8pm hits and it bath, bottle, bed. He’s usually out in about 15 minutes. Plus he sleeps on average 10 hours each night. (He’s 9 months old) Hubby and I wanted to have a date night so we asked grandma and grandpa if the could watch the baby over night and I’d pick him up in the morning. Before I dropped baby off I told them “he cannot have a bath before 8pm or else he’ll be confused on when to go to bed. (It’s happened once before where I gave baby a bath in the morning because I was tired the night before and didn’t bathe him, he lost his shit.....) I explained why he can’t have a bath before 8pm and even told them what happened when I did it. Well guess what???

This morning I go to get my baby at 9 am and his hair is soaking wet. I ask if he had a bath and my mother in law says “yeah because he had food on his face”😡😤😡

Mini rant: does this woman not know that you can just wipe ur face clean with a napkin??? Does she take a shower every time she gets food on her fucking face?

Rant over.

She asked if baby could come over next weekend and I told her I would ask my husband. Would you let him go back or no?