What would you do

Question

Let’s say your husband was cheating on you, because you guys were having issues. The side chick knew about you and began tormenting/harassing you or social media etc. Your husband is apologetic and cuts all ties with the woman, but she continues to harass. Do you work things out with your HUSBAND? Or is the damage done!?

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The damage would have been done when he first cheated, having issues in a relationship is no excuse, you act like adults and work out those issues, not run off to be with someone else 🤷🏼‍♀️ 
sorry you’ve had to go through this at all, I’d feel horrible if my SO cheated and then the other girl tried to torment me on top of it, being the other women is disgusting and just shows how bad of a person she is, so you’re already better than her. 
But honestly stuff like that is very very hard to go through and get over, I say just leave the whole relationship all together because I personally feel like something like this would eat away at me for the rest of my life.

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I think I would try to work it out because I see that as a desperate move on her part to try to break you up anyways. Not to say that you might not end up working out, but it shouldn’t have anything to do with her. If I was trying to move on with my husband from cheating, I would be asking him to do things to make me feel more trusting of him and if he’s doing those things that’s a good sign. Obviously all contact with her needs to GO. counseling for sure. And even then I could never guarantee that I’ll ever completely heal. But that’s between me and him.

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To me it would be like a broken vase that was pieced back together ... never quite the same. 
I haven’t been in your shoes so I don’t know what I would do but it all depends, is it worth fighting for? Was it great before the cheating? Or was that the last straw ? 
I know for a fact you will have trust issues, possibly til the day you die. You will always “wonder” or be suspicious of him. It’s up to you to decide if it’s all worth it

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That would be too much to handle I think.

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I have seen many couples work it out after infidelity/affairs. Some its still a struggle and some have even a better marriage than before after intense marriage therapy and even some seperation. I don't believe in giving up so easily but I also don't believe in staying in a marriage thats unhealthy or unhappy. Obviously. If you take vows seriously (unlike him) other than this 1x infidelity, if he is honest, remorseful, willing to do anything and everything to fight for you, then I would try. With lots of help ans healing. Gaining trust back takes patience. I would file a restraining order against that bitch and do some serious couples therapy...My husband would have to be on the same page as me 100% and if you don't think the marriage is salvageable after you both put your all into it then at least you tried. Now I also dont know your backround with him etc. If hes a jerk.. if hes been sketchy your whole marriage shit like that I wouldn't stay with someone like that or if he is not willing to go to therapy. Take this time to gather all of this as a whole reflection of not just whats happening now but the entire marriage.. He needs a wake up call if he just thinks he can go sleep with another woman because hes having issues with his wife for the time being..Is he still on the same page as YOU? he needs to be honest with you and himself as well.. All the best, pray about it..your heart should know what to do🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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Once a cheater always a cheater....I know that this is hard to believe but it will happen again. In my prayers❤️

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