He’s all “business” with me

I am so irritated. I am a SAHM to our March baby. My husband works a fairly stressful job for the federal government. I think it has a lot to do with how work is going, but he has been different toward me. The last few days, all he does is talk to me about what I have or haven’t done.

-“Did you call your lawyer?”

-“Did you call your doctor?”

-“Did you list this on eBay?”

-“This is how you need to list this item on eBay.”

-“Are you listening? You are terrible at using eBay.”

-“When are you going to the store to get the BBQ stuff for the game?”

Etc. I know it sounds stupid, but like I will literally try to talk to him about his day or try to relax and he will just start in about random crap he wants me to be doing. Last night we had JUST sat down and started to watch something together. He says, “Did you set that calendar reminder on your phone?” I tell him no, and he asks me to do it right then! 🤦‍♀️

Before bed, I spoke to him about how i felt like we couldn’t have a normal conversation and he just wanted to talk “business” with me. I expressed that it bothered me. He laughed at me, and then blamed it on work. Okay, fine.

This morning, I walk in while he is dressing and tell him I have come to collect my good morning kiss. I get the briefest kiss and then he says, “What’s the deal with these shirts? Why are you storing them like this? Go get some more hangers today.”

It wasn’t even 07:00. I am so annoyed. I told him that wasn’t how I wanted to start my day, and walked away. He left the house with a “see ya later”.