*2nd Update* Found messages between my boyfriend and my best friend..

So a little preface before I go into this... We have been together for almost 2 years and my best friend just moved back in the area this past summer. We all used to hangout (my boyfriend and I were really good friends before we dated).

Shortly after we got together, my best friend had to move away for a really awesome job offer. We kept in touch, but obviously weren’t as close. When she told me she’d be moving back, I was super stoked but noticed that my boyfriend was a little *too* excited when I told him about it..

Anyways, I looked past it and thought, well we were all great friends at once and hung out quite often so maybe he’s looking forward to seeing her as much as I was.

Fast forward to when she actually moved into her apartment during mid-July, we would always have girl’s night out and I slept over a couple of times. My boyfriend would occasionally bring her up and invite her over for dinner, with my approval of course.

I noticed that after late August-early September, she hasn’t been making plans with me and when I would ask her if she wanted to go out or even just have me over, she’d decline or tell me she wasn’t feeling well or that she was “busy”

So, I stopped initiating and we’ve been sort of distant since then. My boyfriend hasn’t mentioned her either but tonight when he was in the shower, his phone went off and I was shocked that he received a text from her. This is what I saw...

I deleted the message she sent last because I didn’t want him knowing that I opened it/read it/took a screenshot. I sent myself the screenshot and deleted it from his phone. Y’all, my heart is literally racing so fast. What should I do??

*UPDATE*

First off, thank you ladies for all the advice and reminders to update lol. So, this morning, I went to work per usual. He left for work before I did so we ended up not seeing or talking to each other.

I told my manager when I got to work that I had a family emergency and would have to

leave around 4. He was chill about it and told me to just remind him before I left. Around 3 PM, I get a call from - let’s call her E bc I’d rather not refer to her as my best friend anymore - and I decline it.

She texts me, telling me that she needs to speak with me and that it’s very urgent. 🙄 I ask her what’s wrong and she tells me she would prefer to talk in person. So, I let her know that I should be off work soon. She told me to meet her at her apartment as soon as I get off work.

My manager ended up letting me go at 3:45ish and I drive over to her apartment. The douche texts me while I’m on the way to E’s place and asks me how my day is going then asks what time I’ll be off so he can have dinner ready for me. Little does he know, I’m going to meet with his mistress.

As soon as I get to her place, she lets me in and starts bawling. I already knew what she was about to tell me was gonna hurt, but I sort of prepared myself to accept it because it already happened.

But what I didn’t know is that it’d hurt this bad... she told me that she had been hooking up with my bf for a couple of months. She told me she felt awful about it but didn’t want to stop it or tell me because he would threaten her.

She also told me that her period is 2 days late and she is usually very regular. So, she plans on taking a pregnancy test to show me but I told her I don’t want to know because it would only devastate me further. I just stared at her for most of the conversation because I honestly had no words. She probably apologized to me 50 times and I said nothing.

I told her the least she can do is just delete my number and never try to contact me again. She begged for my forgiveness and told me that she values our friendship and that she’s truly sorry for allowing something so tragic like this to happen to me. I told her I can never forgive her and I wish her the best in life, and said good luck should she decide to keep the baby because I have a pretty damn good feeling she’s pregnant.

I left her place about an hour or so after we talked and the asshole is blowing up my phone. I drive home with this really awful pain in my chest. I walk in the house and he asks me why I haven’t been answering his calls/texts. I say nothing to him and open my phone to the screenshots from last night and leave it on the counter.

I go to the bedroom and start packing my stuff and shortly after he realizes what’s going on, he gets on his knees and starts crying. I look down at him and just continue packing. He starts “explaining” himself telling me that she started it and he never intended for it to go this far.

I still don’t say a word and at this point, I’m so freaking fed up with everything that I can’t even finish packing while hearing all of his bullshit! I get my necessities, grab my phone and slam the door on him. He chases after me and STANDS behind my car, not allowing me to go until I “hear him out.”

I roll my window down and tell him he has 5 minutes then I’m getting the fuck out of here. He apologized and basically told me he really does love me. He said he’ll never, ever let anything like this happen again and that E means nothing to him, that she was just a piece of ass when I wasn’t available. (Like that made anything better?!)

I told him he should go check on E because chances are, she’s expecting his child. His face was in disbelief when I told him because he didn’t expect me to already have had a conversation with her prior to ours. He told me he would do anything for me to stay with him but I told him it’s too late for all of that and he had his chance with me.

Then, I pretty much repeated myself and told him to delete my number and not try to contact me again. I blocked both of their numbers because I know they’ll still try to talk to me.. I left and am currently staying at my cousin’s house. I plan on getting the rest of my stuff tomorrow when he’s at work so I don’t have to see him or hear from him again.

*UPDATE #2*

I’m back with a second update. I took a couple of days to myself and spent time away from social media. The first night I spent at my cousin’s house was difficult. I couldn’t sleep and I kept thinking to myself how could the two people I cared about so much turn around and do this to me?

The following day I waited until I knew he was at work to drive over and get the rest of my stuff. On the way there, I get a message from an unrecognizable number. The message was from E. She was using her friend’s phone and said she really wanted to speak with me although she knew I hated her guts at this point.

I simply replied and told her I gave her the time of day and presented her with an opportunity to tell me everything she had to already. She obviously didn’t want to take no as an answer then sent me this:

I have to make a new post continuing this story because it’s not allowing me to share since the story is too long! The entire update is on a new post with the same title, just search it up.