Yesterday I posted that my dad started issues with me because I live with my boyfriend .

So update : I was going to tell my mom and other family members and I was gonna take my boyfriend Over to my family’s house for thanksgiving but now I’m not. You know why? Because my dad ended up telling my mom my situation when I was going to end up telling her myself. He hasn’t been a father to me all my life, I don’t know why he’s starting to act like this now. I’m completely done talking to him, I’m not letting him know about my personal life anymore because he turned that shit on me. Now my mom is pissed off and oh yeah she’ll tell everyone in the family about it BTW . I think I’ll just stay away for a good while. They have to accept my relationship. Maybe my dad is mad because of the age gap I don’t know. I just turned 21 a few days ago and my boyfriend Is 31. I really don’t see the problem with living with your bf when your 21. Im old enough, my boyfriend makes me very happy and makes sure I get to work everyday. I just don’t understand why everyone is so mad. But it is what it is. I’m happy and that’s all that matters. My dad was like he doesn’t know him. I understand he doesn’t know him but he’s talked to him before . My dad will never be able to meet him in person because he can’t come back to America so I really don’t see what the problem is. Am I wrong for living with my boyfriend ? I know it’s a sin if your not married but my boyfriend opened his doors for me and no one understands that. Let me know what you guys think.