Choking

Does anyone else melt when your significant other puts their hand around your neck in a non aggressive way? My husband and I took a shower together and I asked him to scrub my back and he held me by the neck so softly I was instantly wet (he doesn’t like shower sex but best believe we had some great sex after) I’m not sure if it’s because I love when he touches me so soft and gently but then again I like to be choked during sex🤷‍♀️.