Hi there! My husband an I have been married for a week shy of 2 years. It was a few months into our marriage that we started to realize that we would have trouble conceiving. At first we just chalked it up to him being nervous since we waited until marriage. He doesn't cum at all. Not even a tiny drop. We have begun to notice that he does get gratification from our relations, but nothing happens physically. He's been to a urologist once, who said all of your bloodwork (done more that 4 months previous by our GP) is normal so you just need to go to marriage counseling. It's been about a year since he went, and we have another appt scheduled in 2 weeks. I'm going along this time. If only to give the doctor some shade for not doing any tests or anything of his own.

TlL;DR: has anyone been through this? What did you do? Were you eventually able to conceive naturally or medically? As a supportive wife what should be some things I'm doing, or asking, or looking out for at the appt?