Not pretty enough

I feel like my husband isn’t sexually attracted to me anymore. It feels like the only thing he ever wants is blowjobs and/or a hand-job to get off and that’s all. I’ve tried sexy poses while being naked, I’ve tried seduction, I’ve even put in sexy outfits, I’ve tried role playing, I’ve set dirty pictures even videos of me playing with myself. And the bang thing is he says he wants to have kinds with me, but he doesn’t want to have sex with me. It makes me feel ugly.