We met in high school, and we immediately became close and you considered me like your “little sister” yet you began to do shady things.

Thing 1: You had a boyfriend. You knew I liked him and wanted to date him. You knew he liked me and wanted to date me. So what did you do? You told him that I was my ex’s and that there was nothing he could do about it. You told me that he did not want a girlfriend. Then you proceeded to cheat on your boyfriend by sexting him! And you confessed this to me in front of my best friend in the bathroom, and got upset when she told your ex mans.

Thing 2: There was this guy. The ex I previously mentioned in thing 1. We were on and off for years. We met when I was 14, and I finally ended things with him for good in January of this year. I thought I could finally trust you again and we had made up. But what did you turn around and do? Try to sleep with my ex who meant a lot to me and is the guy I lost my virginity to. Not only did I date him, but so did two other friends of yours. You were still friends with both of them at this time too. Yet you lied to me, and he had proof to back up that you lied about sleeping with him.

Thing 3: Fast forward to now: This May be my fault because now that we’re older I thought you finally matured. You have a boyfriend. Yet you’ve tried to get close to mine and have done shady things since he works with you. Did you think he wouldn’t tell me? How is him completely ignoring you at this point not a hint to leave him alone? He isn’t your friend and never will be. Go focus on your boyfriend. I also know you’ve flirted with other co-workers and they’ve given you the reputation of “a book who’s been seen by everyone at work”.

Do us both a favor and go seek help to find out what your obsession is with men I date.