On top help?

Question

When we’re having sex I get on top but I don’t feel comfortable 
I feel unflattering and large and like I’m not sure what to do? I wanna be more comfortable on top and like I know what I’m doing. What should I do how should I move? Put my hands?   
Any tips please???

Answer

Girl you probably look great and especially to him!! He is most definitely loving the view, men do NOT think about or care about all the things we think they do during sex. He isnt looking at your bikin line to see if it’s freshly shaven, he isnt looking at your stomch, he doesn’t care about your arm hair or what faces you make. Hell he should be lucky YOU want to have sex with him! Lol. Be free girl.

Answer

I understand your feeling. One thing that helps me is not thinking about how he might see me, and just think about the moves or how good it feels and disconnect from my insecurities. 
For the movement, you can just jump up and down at a steady pace or just lay down on top of him like hugging (if you feel too insecure about your upper body or more comfortable that way) and try to move your hips forwards and backwards. Try the movement on your own first in your bed to see how you feel.

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It’s my favorite place to be. It’s more of a rocking motion. Back and fourth. Hands behind me. Around his knees. Sometimes on myself. Wherever feels comfortable. There’s multiple ways to do it. When I was first learning it he kinda helped me with the motion. Its ok to ask for guidance/assistance. Especially to get comfortable with it until you’re ok doing it on your own.

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