Too young to stay?

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I’m 21 and engaged to a man I can picture myself happily spending the rest of my life with however I am SO young! We have a 1.5 yr old together which complicates things. Lately I’m feeling that urge to be single and enjoy my 20s... I don’t know what to do 😕
Update: obviously I should clarify some things.... I would never consider cheating on him which is apparently the impression some of you got. 
I don’t know if I should find myself and experience life on my own which I’ve never had the chance to do. I wonder this because if I am feeling this way, maybe I’m not ready to settle down.
Update 2: Some of you ladies are ridiculously angry and rude... thank you to those who understand where I am coming from with these feelings. As for those of you saying “imagine if he heard you say this, imagine if he said this to you etc” I wouldn’t be mad. I’d be glad he told me his true feelings and I would understand why he feels that way. I am planning on talking to him about it so there’s no need to “imagine how he’d feel if he heard me say it” 🙄 
To those of you saying I should’ve thought before I had a child, how do you know the circumstances in which I had my daughter and how can you judge how good of a mother I am based on me questioning my relationship?! That is a beyond rude thing to say to someone and I honestly can’t even believe there are comments like that on here. 
Go take your anger elsewhere ladies...

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I got married at 19 to my 18 year old husband. 2 years and 3 kids later we're still going strong. Honestly, this attitude will kill your love faster than your age.

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I don’t know why all of these ladies feel the need to attack you for how you are feeling... 
You are young and because you are so young, you probably haven’t had a chance to learn who you are yet! If you are having doubts about your relationship than I see why you feel this way... communicate this fear to him and see how he feels.

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I truly don't think people should get married until their late 20s, at the earliest. I'm not trying to start any arguments with people who got married young, so don't come at me. It's just a belief I have. When you're in your 20s you're still developing and figuring out who you are. You should absolutely take that time to do so. Twenty-year-old you will likely not be anything like 30-year-old you; growing is the point during that time. Afterwards you should have a much better idea of the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Honestly, good for you for realizing you might not be ready for marriage before you got married. It's your life to live the way that's best for you.

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Follow your gut!  This is a very common feeling within young couples who started having kids early - if you’re not happy and don’t feel fulfilled, then you’re not.  Don’t beat yourself up for feeling that way.  Definitely think it through to the max before making any decisions!  And definitely don’t ever ever ever cheat on him.
I felt this way with my hubby at first, ended up sticking it out a little longer and realized he was the love of my life.
Good luck!  
And don’t listen to these angry ladies.  Everyone has such a bad attitude on this app

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I don't think that has anything to do with you're age.... I got married at 21 and am still happily married almost 6 years later. It's possible that you are not ready for marriage but I don't think it's because of your age

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If you have the urge to be single & enjoy your 20's, you're obviou not ready for commitment. You can always enjoy your 20's with your Fiance & daughter, but sounds like you don't wanna. I feel bad for your " Fiance".

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Imagine how butt hurt you would be if he said this to you. Should’ve thought of that before getting engaged. You should leave people with that mentality end up cheating, save him from a heart break.

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This is why I don’t think babies are marriage are good so young.
I’m 24 and can’t imagine being tied down with a kid. Still so much to do in life.

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How will you be single and go find yourself with a baby that depends on you? Give her to your fiance so you can go live freely? I mean I dont think that's how things work when you have a child.. I got married at 22, 8.5 years ago and I never desired anything more than him..

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Yikes.

Too young to stay?

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