Break up time?

Time to let it out to y’all!

I need some advice?

Okay so I’ve been with my spouse for Four years (living together) we have a Two year old together. I’m the bread winner of the house. We never argue because neither of us are confrontational really but something is missing? We have no chemistry or spark? It’s like we are friends we do everything together but It doesn’t feel like we are doing things as a family it feels like I’m forcing him to do things he doesn’t wanna do Like If I wanna go to the beach he huffs and puffs and says he doesn’t wanna go but when I tell him he is aloud to stay home he says “No I don’t wanna be home alone I guess I’ll go 🙄” basically with all activities anything I wanna do on my days off sees like a hassle to him and I always tell him the same thing just stay home I’ll go alone. I don’t like him touching me, I don’t like him kissing me (he always smells terrible because he dips) I’ve told him many times I find it to be nasty and Id like for him to quit (I also have to buy his dip daily), I Don’t really even like being around him but he’s obsessed with being with me all the time! Even if I wanna go see my girlfriend he tags along and makes me feel rushed the whole time. I feel like we have nothing in common at all! He likes video games & football and that’s all he talks about and I tell him all the time that I don’t care and I don’t wanna have conversations about these things. I know I’m probably the problem but how do you leave someone you have a child with and live with with really no explanation other than “ you annoy the fuck out of me “ ??