How do I fix my marriage?

When I got pregnant with our daughter my husband seemed to have lost attraction to me. He never showed me affection, or love. Sex was rare (it wasn’t good sex, but I loved being close with him and to me that’s all that mattered) And this continued until I told him upfront I’m no longer happy.

He’s now trying, which is appreciated so much by me. But it’s been almost 2 years of no love or affection, and I just can’t imagine being intimate with him. I love him with all my heart, he’s a great dad, a good man.

But I feel like my attraction to him is gone after all the lack of love for almost two years.

I have no idea what to do.

-I have talked to him about what I need and want, have since the beginning, I’m very upfront

-Counseling has crossed my mind but he didn’t even get our daughter’s birthday off, I’m not sure how we could fit counseling into our time frame

-I don’t think he’s cheating