What do i do?

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Not sure what to do anymore. I’m 9 weeks pregnant and I have been sick since 4 weeks along. I’ve literally put my work and any social life aside bc I’m just trying to survive and get by from feeling so nauseous and throwing up. 
My husband feels neglected and I feel like there’s nothing I can do bc I have no energy for his sexual needs. 
He’s always trying to get me to touch him while our son is on our bed and i find that to be inappropriate, right? So I tell him not to do anything while our son is in bed. Of course he gets pissed, but I won’t budge. 
He thinks my sickness is fake and that I need to toughen up. It’s so fake that I’ve lost 5 pounds, right. 
I can’t have sex with him bc I feel nauseous with lots of movement. I can’t give him a handjob bc that’s a lot of energy I’m putting and it’s uncomfortable. Idk what to do. I told him when I start getting better I’d be more attentive, but he literally thinks that I’m doing this on purpose or that j don’t want to give him attention.

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He is a selfish man.. and yes it is so inappropriate to do that while ur son is next to u two.. I'm sorry but I find that disturbing and disgusting.. what if he wakes up? Eww.. as for ur sickness.. I've been having it really bad.. I'm 15 weeks pregnant.. I booked an appointment with my doctor and he gave me anti sickness tablets.. it's perfectly safe to take.. I can't tell u how better I feel.. please go and ask for it.

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Have you tried sea bands ? That was the only thing that helped with my horrible sickness with my first

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Extreme nausea is sign of the body missing something. Make sure you are getting lots of protein and taking a good prenatal that does not make you sick. Also nausea, if someone has it, usually lasts until 12-14 weeks (some shorter and some longer).
As far as touching him with your son in the bed, first of all dont do something you dont want to do, and second of all based on the age of your son a TON of couples will still do intimate acts with their sleeping children in the bed. Find what works for you. I understand the not feeling up to sex, but maybe a hand job will be able to help your husband feel that connection to you still and tie him over until you are up to more? I know many will say that he is being selfish but really he just has a need to have some kind of intimacy between you. It is a NEED. Really.

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Your barely pregnant. My gosh how insensitive he is. 
You can take meds. I got so sick w my 5th pregnancy that I couldn’t move. I didn’t get out of my recliner for 3 days. Not even to pee or shower. I wasn’t eating or drinking so I just laid there & vomited stomach acid all day. I think i had HG w her tho. 
There’s meds if you don’t get better. Diclegis is made for pregnant women.