Slow dancing with other people

Please be nice.

First off let me say, I am a very insecure person, I’m not going to deny that. I over think everything, I think of every possible way something could have gone.

So my boyfriend was out of state this past week for a wedding. He was gone for a little over a week. The one thing I asked him not to do, was slow dance with another chick. Everybody can have their own opinions, that doesn’t mean that mine is wrong. My opinion of slow songs - it’s a romantic dance.

Well come to find out, he slow danced with another chick at the wedding & he’s the one that asked her to dance. I might be a little less upset if she had asked him to dance & he said yes to be polite, but no he asked her to dance. His reasoning? Because everybody was dancing, what was he supposed to do just go sit at a table by himself? Well sure, that’s what you do when a slow song comes on if you don’t have someone to dance with.

So I just am asking for other people opinions about it, please don’t be rude just give me your thoughts.

I already know that I’m insecure, & I’m trying to work on it. Please, before you knock me for being insecure, please remember how hard it is to change something about yourself before you jump down my throat for being insecure. I don’t choose to be insecure, I hate the fact that I am. I hate that I overthink absolutely everything.

I’m just asking for others opinions, if you would be upset in this scenario or not.

I don’t know the girl, and he barely knows the girl. It’s not like it was a female friend that he’s know forever or someone we both know.