I was told I was having a girl at 12 weeks with genetics testing then at 15 weeks and 6 days we had a scan done at a local 4D ultrasound clinic and were told to expect a girl... our baby passed and the mortician told us baby was a boy and had all the boy parts! I’m dying right now of heartache. After 6 girls (two sets of twins) my brain is flooded with the idea that I could have had my first boy and my fiancé could have had his first son. How could this be?? Now I can’t even think about trying one last time for a boy in fear of having another girl and just disappointing everyone with another girl.. its selfish thinking I’m sure but I’m being honest.. I can’t stop thinking about what could have possibly been my son. How do we grieve properly not truly knowing if it’s girls or boy. I was speechless when the mortician told us and then asked how we wanted to identify our baby for the death certificate so I let the mortician decide for us. I know this probably sounds silly but can anyone help me make sense of any of this gender crap and how could Dna say one thing and a mortician say he saw a boy with all boy parts. I will post two photos one will be where the lady circled all girl for us at the ultrasound and said she saw the three lines and the next is a screen shot of the video taken at the same ultrasound appointment but to me it does look like a possible boy... I’m so confused maybe the mortician and I are both wrong...