My mother in law just called us ungrateful because we requested that she not buy us or our kids anything for Christmas because she always buys A LOT of stuff my Son don’t like or play with and stuff We don’t ever use and end up donating or reselling. I feel like she could save so much money by not getting us anything so we told her that and she called us ungrateful. Example my son has a cousin the same age that loves pj mask. She bought both of them a lot of pj mask stuff and my son never cared because he likes super heroes. She never bothers to ask what we want or like she just hits whatever and it goes to waste. That’s money she can keep in her pocket. You know?