Ttc for the first time and don’t know if I’m symptom spotting

Tyann

Been try for about three months and this months I had cramps and no spotting for about three days a week before Af was due and then two days before they stopped. I’ve also been getting headaches and blower back aches. I’ve tested twice with first response and gotten two BFN. I was due for AF today and nothing. I’ve never been late before. Any options?