Hows dating? Do most men expect sex on the first date or pretty quick?

Im 27 & got out of a long term relationship, I want to start getting to know people. i go out to bars, bowling ect but never really get to meet anyone I kind of want to get apps for dating but im afraid most men will expect hooking up & thats not my thing.. i even want to practice abstinence until i feel readyy with someone i will know for sure we are heading somewhere in our relationship.

so i do not know where to start in dating 😞😞 help!