Okay so my boyfriend and I definitely haven’t been together long. Our relationship started quickly but I am indefinitely in love with him. (We are both Pisces) not that, that matters.

We lost our first baby a month ago & one of his friends told me he took it very hard when I lost it. I was never told this by him, but since then our relationship feels changed. He claims nothing’s changed, but I feel otherwise. (Maybe it’s all in my head.)

So, we get pregnant again, immediately after miscarriage. And I surprised him with a box and a onesie and a beautiful card and yet, he has said nothing. He opened it three days ago and has said nothing.

I’m just in disbelief.

Today is also our anniversary, and he doesn’t even know it I guess. He hasn’t said anything. Has really barely talked to me for the past two days and I’m not sure if he’s scared of us miscarrying again as that is also a chance or maybe something else is bothering him, like the fact that he’s in the Navy and has to go underway in February to my knowledge and I have no idea for how long. He claims they aren’t deploying soon, but other sources tell me they will deploy for 6 months. Baby is due in July.

It’s so nerve wrecking for me as my hormones are all over the place and I don’t need or want this extra stress.

Has anyone else had these issues??