Forced to get on birth control

Grace 💓

So I’m 18 and a freshman in college. My mom and my boyfriends mom are forcing me to get on birth control. My mom is saying “I’m the mom , I have the final say so” . And it irritates me because I have been on the pill before and I hate it with a passion. I honestly am against birth control altogether on my part . She wants me to get the shot and I’m scared it will mess w my emotions and will make me (long term) infertile. Opinions?