I'm currently living with my bd and his mother , Our daughter is a Year and a Half will be 2 in March well am I wrong for wanting to be the ONLY person besides her daddy to get to her. He NEVER depends me towards his mom. I was raised ONLY parents should discipline there kids Considering she didn't raise none of her kids. I'm a new parent Our first kid If I have a question about something I'll ask. I dont ever ask for help from her period unless it's to get a shower. I dont leave her with family shes with me 24/7. I feel like I have no say so to my child like she being mother to my child.