Okay so I had a baby almost 7m ago. I used to be size small/medium. I didn't gain an unnecessary amount of weight during my pregnancy but I'm not quite sure how much I weigh now. I just know that absolutely none of my clothes fit me and I'm not used to my body being the way it is. Im slowly trying to learn to love this new size that I'm rockin. My fiance is a pretty tall skinny but muscular dude. So he makes me feel pretty large in comparison to him even though I'm shorter than him. I talked to him about my slight self esteem with my new body and assured him I was going to get back to my old size and this man straight up told me.. babe..I don't want you to lose weight you look amazing the way you are, you were unhealthy before. He went on to say if I wanted to tone up and feel healthier for myself he would support me all the way but said I was beautiful the way I was. We are younger(22&23) planned our baby and we have an amazing relationship honestly even though we do have our ups and downs. He just makes me so happy. He's the only man who hasn't ever made me feel self conscious