My heart breaks for you

I use glow to track my pregnancy and to ask questions. I love reading all the stories on here but I have such a heard time seeing all the women on here who have terrible spouses who cheat.

My dad had a 3 year affair, my mom stayed with him for 6 years after finding out because he got really sick and she wanted to make it work. Like my mom is the strongest person i know. Well my dad never changed, he had continued to talk to this woman (who by the way lives in china and is 20 years younger 🤢- my dad used to travel to china for work half the year).

Finally after learning he is still talking to her my mom decided to get a divorce. She was a stay at home mom for 30 years to 4 kids. They have been married for 33 years. She just got a job as i flight attendant, has her own house, her own car. The divorce isnt final yet but my dad is talking down on her so much, saying its all her fault and that she deserves nothing and that she is a horrible person.

I just have no idea how someone you used to love and had 4 babies with can suddenly become someone you hate.

My dad said he is going to start a real relationship with mistress and hopes we will all welcome her (um no way.)

I sit here feeling my 2nd baby girl kick while my toddler sleeps and my husband next to me just so sad. I never thought my dad would cheat on my mom- they always seemed happy (well until I went to high school) i guess as a kid you just dont see it though.

I worry that this will happen to me one day. I couldnt imagine my life without my partner. My parents were 16 and 19 when they met and 18-21 when married. I was 15 and my husband was 17 when we started dating- i feel like its scary to me that the people who i looked up to relationship wise( because we both had started our relationships young )could end up like this.

My heart breaks for my mom who is mourning her marriage.. I hope she can find happiness.

My heart breaks for all the women i see who have had a cheating partner.

Im sorry for all of you.

I hope i never know your pain.