I thought I was going through early stages of menopause and thought I couldn’t get pregnant. As of last year my cycle has not been on time, as I have always had regular periods. And as 3days late turned into 20 days late I figured this is it I have joined the menopause club. But my breasts became heavier and hurt like I had a bad bra on each day. I went on the internet to see if that was apart of menopause but pregnancy kept coming up. So I went to buy a test and low and behold I’m pregnant ! I confirmed it in the emergency room today as I went in because of a sore throat that I thought was strep. Turns out it was a respiratory infection and I couldn’t get any antibiotics because of my confirmed test they took. So I am a mother of 3. My oldest is in college and will be turning 20 on Christmas, a teenager that’s 14 and my only son( for now maybe) that’s 9. What am I to do with a newborn?! I haven’t told them yet until I know for sure I can carry to full term. Any other “seasoned” moms out there?