Abusive?

My husband got mad at me for because he got this new game. I aint got no problem UNLESS, he is on it extensively and I think he needs a break. Well he ended up bringing this about in the car, on our way to somewhere, that I can't let him enjoy nothing, I'm always telling him something when hes on the xbox? Which I don't feel I do. But we were in the car and he said something and put his hands idk how youd call it , but he had his first two fingers and pointing at my head twice like a gun? talking to me like I'm stupid or to get his point across. It's the second time he's done it.