Hello, my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for two years and he is thinking about marriage and buying a house, etc. The thing is I don’t think I’m in love with him anymore. Here are some examples from the past few months.

1: He lost his 10th job in two years for not being able to take orders and is taking his anger out on me verbally.

2. He wants me to quit my job working with children, so that I don’t get sick. He’s not even interested in what I say, I absolutely adore my job. I was born at twenty- four weeks and I’ve always been sick in the fall and winter months.

3. He is assuming that I will pay for his half of vacation that is due in April. I have told him multiple times that if he doesn’t pay his way then he can’t go.

4. I was sick on Friday and he was jacking off across the living room while I was just waking up. He always wants to have sex all the time and constantly wants to touch and kiss me. I was assaulted twice and he knew this, but I feel like he doesn’t care.

5. He always complains about his lack of money, but doesn’t want to eat what I fix, so he goes to get fast food.

6. The only thing he wants to talk about is cars and when I ask him to change the subject, he gets mad.

7. He has left multiple hickey‘s on my neck while I’m asleep that are almost impossible to cover up.

8.He has stopped staying with me for almost three months and gets mad if he’s not with me 24/7.