Life after having kids

I am so curious to see what everyone thinks. My husband and I have two kids and since having both we never get a chance to hang out with friends. Not that we cant or we wont let eachother, its more that we dont get invited to do things. After our first we still did things but it was usually my husband going out and me staying home or the other way around, we dont have any family that can watch our girls. To us it seems like we are the ones reaching out to friends and we always get a response from them, its definitely not them reaching out to us anymore. We have invited them to come to our place but no one ever wants to because they always say they dont want to keep our kids up or they dont end up going out till after 9pm. Which is still fine with us its not like we are elderly yet 😂The majority of our friends do not have any kids so we think thats maybe why. 🤷‍♀️Or maybe it is our fault we just dont see what we did. We are in our mid 30s so just not sure what to think anymore 😥

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