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My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend.... it’s been years. I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant and of Ofcoarse I’m going through with it. I have a 4 year old from a previous relationship. And raising that child alone. Anyways.... my mother has said once to me “if you have a baby with him(my boyfriend)... I want nothing to do with it. I will only deal with the first one” ! The nerve of this toxic bitch!!!! Anyways I feel like... these are your grandchildren regardless and if you won’t deal and accept one... you WILL not deal with NONE PERIOD! Fuck is wrong with her.?! I’m not even gonna tell her I’m pregnant now... I’ll just slowly cut her off & keep my first child away from her as well. Anyways am I being dead wrong in this?

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Your mom is a bitch. How is she gonna deny your baby the love of a gramma just cause of who the dad is?? That’s awful

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Who tf voted yes.?🤨

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I think u should test the waters. I dont know your mom but often times people are fluid:..... My mom had a customer who cried when she found out her daughter was preg by a black man...... but she fell in love with the baby when it was here. I think its at least worth a shot to see if the grandkids can hav a relationship with grandma.... just kinda see how things play out. And of course if she gonna play favorites... no ma”am.

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The females that voted “you are wrong” are fucking nutty! How the fuck is she wrong for keeping the first child from the grandmother? The grandmother is an asshole! You you deny one of my kids, you’ll have no parts in the other. No one is going to pick and choose what child they deal with when it comes to my children fuck that

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I agree with you. If she can't accept your second child then it's not fair. She needs to accept both or none.

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I can totally understand where you are coming from, the thing I just hope you consider is that, if your child who is 4 years old has a close relationship with your mother you will also hurt that child by cutting her off. Just maybe try to see how she reacts once the child is here.

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No you're not wrong sweetie! You have every right to raise your children how you seem fit and that means who you want apart of their lives and who you don't want as well. If i were you I'd sail that ship FAR away from her. Your family aboard and make it clear to your Bf and other family members you don't want her seeing your kids. I had something similar happen and i didn't want X family member seeing my kids but little did i know other family members that were allowed to see my kids and i sent pics to them, they were going behind my back and sending them to the person i didn't want involved. Once i found that out, i cut those ppl off and now they're not allowed to be involved bc they wanted to go behind my back about it and destroy all the trust i had in them. Oh well! They dug that hole. Your children, your life, your say! 
I wouldn't involved her in anything and I'd remove her, block her. Do what you have to do sweetie. But it can make some ppl bitter and do evil shit. Be cautious. Make sure she can't pick your kids up or anything like that. Make sure she doesn't have any access or control over them outside your home. If her name is a contact at a Drs office, remove it. If she's  an alternate contact for your daughter's daycare, remove her.

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Yeah that’s not cool your mom seems very immature and should know that your child had nothing to do what who the father is...

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Thats childish of her. Deny a baby bcuz she don’t like the father? Pathetic.

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