I’m just going to be blunt and to the point about this.

I have written some very upsetting things on this support group. I would always put anonymous and I would release all my concerns.

I thought he was a full blown narcissist. After doing research that was the conclusion I came to..

My husband suffers from horrible mood issues. He would be so reactive to anything and everything that triggered him that it put our marriage in a deep hole. These traits didn’t appear until about a year into our marriage. He would do things that would hurt me emotionally and a lot of it yes was most likely unhealthy and considered abuse. I stuck by his side until I couldn’t take it anymore and decided to move back home out of state from him.

This caused separation for the better. He had to live with his parents again which resorted in him understanding that he may have picked up some of these traits from his child hood.. he started yearning to better himself.

It’s astonishing to see someone genuinely change for the better. My husband did that! He realizes his parents are messed up. They didn’t treat him right. He copped the way that he knew how when he was 5.

I just wanted to say this because people do change and want better. I never use to believe it.

I just stumbled on his YouTube channel and he has videos of “How to control my moods without medications.” “How to eat better for my emotional health.”

I just want to say how proud I am of him. I thought I was doomed.