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I would calmly sit him down and tell him your afraid to but we need to work our fears out together or it will drive us apart you don’t want to lose him. Just tell him how you feel but don’t yell or be aggressive he’s already scared you don’t want to put him away when he’s trying to open up to you or you won’t get that again it’s normal to be scared bring an innocent life into this world even if you both planned it, he’s not backing out or anything I think he’s just worried on being a dad if it’s his first time then it’s understandable
Fearful husband says it’s hard to look at me
My husband shared with me this morning that he is so afraid of having a child that he has been avoiding me. I am 18 weeks pregnant and he says every time he looks at me and sees my belly he is acutely reminded of this fear. I understand being a little freaked out - making a little being can be very frightening at times, but now I feel very alone in this pregnancy. We decided to get pregnant together, and now scared he is having second thoughts (a little late). Help from any mamas that experienced this fear in their husbands would be sooo helpful!!
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Remind him its HIS baby . Your the one going through 9 months of changes+ postpartum recovery.. its sometimes not easy for pregnant moms to stare back at themselves in the mirror when we get bloated and taking a shower is tiring as well.. the extra weight in the belly.. agh if guys had to grow a baby in their balls
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