Wishing and Praying...

So my monthly was due three day’s ago and I haven’t really gotten any symptoms but lower back pain. My husband and I have been trying for our rainbow baby since last year. I took two pregnancy tests so far and both are Negative 👎🏻 however, last time I was pregnant I took a test a day or two after my late period and the same thing happened, it was negative. It wasn’t until a week or two later it was positive.

I really don’t know what to think. Is it possible it’s too early? I’ve been using the wandflo pregnancy tests. I took one today and one two days ago.

Update:

I still haven’t gotten my monthly and according to my app I am about 8 days late. But according to my body I’m about 5. I usually get my monthly around day 35 and it’s day 40. I did have some slight spotting on Thursday, which led me to believe that I was getting it but then nothing. I did test this morning and it was negative. I’m thinking I may call the doctor on Monday. I hope I’m not going to perimenopause. My mom hit menopause when she was 39 and I’m 38. I feel so bummed out and upset and scared all at the same time.