Conflicted to no end

My Ex and I broke up at the end of September

By mid October she was already seeing other people

Since the break up she's told me I can only watch our daughter for two nights a month and about 16 hours a week

She also has filed for child support

In the past two weeks however she's softened up and is speaking to me again and Sunday night she even told me she's willing to do whatever it takes to work it out

I love her, I want us to be a happy family but she has hurt me so deep and for us to be able to even begin rebuilding our relationship there has to be a lot of change

But she just accused me of playing games with her because of this position

I just don't understand what I'm supposed to do