Should I still go to Thanksgiving?

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My grandparents are foster parents and they have a baby that is in the hospital with RSV. Obviously the baby isnt going to Thanksgiving as hes hospitalized but they said they are still going. This is my sons first Thanksgiving and I am also pregnant with my 2nd. I told my mother I wouldn't be attending because RSV is super contagious and even if they are not showing symptoms they could still have it and be contagious. She is pissed. Says I'm ruining Thanksgiving for my son and being selfish. I think I'm in the right because I don't want to risk him getting sick or me for that matter as I'm pregnant. What do you ladies think? I'm torn as family from out of state that hasn't met my son yet will be there and its his first Thanksgiving.

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