Hello, I’m the girl who “bitches” at their husband for dressing nice.
After reading some of y’all’s responses, I figured out that me feeling that way was an “in the moment” reaction to what’s obviously a much more rooted problem.
It’s more of like.... how can you be walking around so “nicely” when our life (or at least mine) is crumbling due to several problems.
To the ladies who were nice, thank you. I was able to put things into perspective and see that him doing the thing wasn’t the issue but was subconsciously reminding me of the underlying problems.
To the ladies that were rude, also thank you. I had a good cry that I think I had stuck in me from a long time.