What’s your go to move when your SO is in a bad mood and starts getting an attitude/trying to pick a fight?

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Just curious - I think it probably happens in every relationship, all of us get ticked off by something and get in bad moods, so what do you do when your SO starts taking it out on you and you know it’s about to go downhill fast?

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“i know you are having a bad day, but do not take it out on me.”  
my husband and i have both said that to each other. it rarely happens anymore though because we try to leave our crappy day’s at the door. i wouldn’t say it’s a ‘snap back’ but it’s straight forward.

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I don’t leave the house exactly, but I leave him be until he chills out. Then we can normally talk about it 😊

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Whenever one of us is grumpy we just take a break from each other. I'll go on a drive or we both will go to bed or sit in silence together. We have never had a fight but with me being pregnant and him having a high stress job we get irritated with each other kind of easily.

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Disarm him with my charm.... my butt, I’m talking about my butt 😂. But slightly more seriously, I usually try to pull him out of his funk by showing him some love/affection.

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To be completely honest, my husband has actually never been in a bad mood. He’ll get upset at times over maybe something job related or family situations but he’s never “woken up on the wrong side of the bed,” or came home from work in a bad mood. I’m the one that gets in bad moods here and there!

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I always ask “why are you talking to me like that!?” Calmly. 
Leave the room and come back in with a neck massage! Gets him most every time lol

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Whenever one of us in a bad mood we tell one another. This way there’s no unnecessary arguments.

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I’m more moody then my fiancé. He’s so chill. We stop when we see our discussion starting to head towards a fight. We stop and pivot in a different direction. I’m grateful he’s such a chill, nice guy!

What’s your go to move when your SO is in a bad mood and starts getting an attitude/trying to pick a fight?

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