My boyfriend and I broke up in October because we both weren’t feeling it at the time because we have been really stressed and he is moving in December, I have moved on to a new guy and he is absolutely amazing but the thing is he doesn’t think that our personalities go together, he says since he is immature that he wants someone that is more mature than him so that she can stop him from doing stupid things, he wasn’t calling me immature though and he made that very clear, I told him that I am the “mom” of my friend group because I stop them from doing stupid stuff, and I’m also graduating 6 months earlier than what I’m supposed to, I’m also going to be going in to the military. How can I show him that I am what he wants he just doesn’t see it yet?