Husband didn’t help us put the Christmas tree up 🥺

Is this even more reassurance on why I have been considered a divorce? It was just me and the kids. He says he has more enjoyment watching them do it than helping us but my god we never do anything as a family 🥺 I honestly am trying so hard to keep us and our family together but idk how much more I can take. Please pray for us and for my metal strength! 😭😭😭