Losing hope. Today is 14dpiui

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2nd <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> cycle . Zero fertility issues as we have to do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> to conceive as a same sex couple . we have a 3 year old so conceiving shouldnt be a problem . both cycles using femera and trigger . tested on day 12 after <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> BFN . is there any point in testing today as that was only two days ago and today would be 14dpiui. Since its thanksgiving i dont want to test and get my feelings hurt but really want to know if anyone had bfn and two days later got bfp . my wife and i are losing hope even if its only

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> #2 since i dont have any fertility issues i just dont understand what we are doing wrong. Trigger was out day 9. Is there anything you changed during different

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> cycles that you think lead to it actually working. We live in ohio and after the first <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a> costing around 5 grand every cycle after is 2,000 and if we are doing everything right maybe i should switch fertility clinics ? Sorry for the long post im just getting really down on myself and as you all know ttc is already a emotional rollercoaster .