So everyone on my husbands family smokes except for him and we made it pretty clear that we dont want no one holding the baby after they smoke...however now they're visiting for thanksgiving and his grandmother thinks its fine to pick up the baby smelling like smoke......shes a great person, she doesnt mean harm but you're not gonna hold my baby if you're smoking anymore....I had to talk to my husband about it and get him to tell them because they put their smoke filled clothes ON HER FUCKING CARSEAT. Idgaf how things were done for the past 20 years....dont do that shit....thanksgivings is now ruined. I'm taking my baby upstairs and were not going downstairs anymore. Everyone can go and fuck off if they're not going to obey our rules.