Mundane Marriage

I have 3 kids, sahm, husband works a lot. Every night after the kids go to bed, we watch tv... he’s asleep in his chair by 9... I know he works hard and is tired, I am too but I need adult conversation after looking after kids all day and night. I don’t know what to do. I tried talking to him about it. He got annoyed and shut down the conversation. I love him and I’m loyal but I daydream about having conversations/relations with men who find me interesting..