Hello there I've been thinking about this a lot and i clearly cannot fully understand it. So I'm here to seek some advice. Me and my boyfriend been dating for about 3 years now. We also have a 6 month old son. But things aren't so great in bed. He usually doesn't take his time with me and he always calls me loose. (my birth was with forceps witch can play a role into why I'm loose i guess) and he's always saying that he is not feeling anything because I'm like that. Before i gived birth i was really tight and now is just not. I don't understand why i got like that. He seems to not enjoy having sex with me and most times he'll avoid it. Also most times sex can be really painful for me as i don't get much pleasure out of it. We tried different things to try and spicy things up but nothing has really worked. Also i tried exercises to try and get tighter but they seem not to work. :( I'm feeling really bad about my body and i think that's the reason why he has cheated on me a few times from whenever i gived birth..also each time we are done having sex i feel a lot of pain.. He's not rough but i can't seem to enjoy it and when i stand up i feel a lot of pain...